Want To Improve
Your Public Speaking Skills?
Got the gift of gab? Lucky you! Most people tell us
that public speaking isn’t for them. They get too nervous when all eyes are on
them. While it’s true that some people are naturals when it comes to presenting
information to a group of people, others are not. But if have a public presence is important to the
delivery of your message, your news, then consider finding ways to make the
process work for you, not against you.
According to a well-known public speaking consultant,
there are things that you can do to make your efforts more effective and less
painful.
Useful Guidelines
Marjorie Lee North provided 10 tips through Harvard
University’s Extended Education program for Professional Development. Here are two of our favorites:
1. Nervousness Is Normal. Practice and Prepare!
All people feel some physiological reactions like pounding
hearts and trembling hands. Do not associate these feelings with the
sense that you will perform poorly or make a fool of yourself. Some nerves are
good. The adrenaline rush that makes you sweat also makes you more alert and
ready to give your best performance.
The best way to overcome anxiety is to prepare, prepare, and
prepare some more. Take the time to go over your notes several times. Once you
have become comfortable with the material, practice—a lot. Videotape yourself,
or get a friend to critique your performance.
We have found that clients ‘assume’ they
are going to forget what they want to say have a greater chance of having that
happen. Those who know their information can quickly pick up loose threads and tie
up the topic without their audience even noticing a dropped stitch here and
there.
7. Don’t Read Unless You Have to. Work from an Outline.
Reading from a script or slide fractures the interpersonal
connection. By maintaining eye contact with the audience, you keep the focus on
yourself and your message. A brief outline can serve to jog your memory and
keep you on task.
The point of an in-person presentation
is to allow for personal contact between you and those you are speaking to.
Eyes focused on a piece of paper do not let you make important contact. In fact,
it can have an adverse effect because it tells the audience, through body
language, that you don’t see them.
With today’s digital feedback tools, you can record
yourself to see and hear what you are doing. Once you know what your weak spots
are, you can begin the process of shoring them up. So, don’t throw public relations
opportunities out of your public relations strategies. You can learn skills you
don’t already know, and you can customize your message to fit your style.
To read North’s complete article, click here.
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